I have joint custody of my kids. Dad has them from Sun to Sun, then I have them Sun to Sun. We have been alternating weeks for 4 years. The kids are sick and tired of driving back and forth all the time and my oldest now says he just wants to stay at dad's. He grew up there and I think that's where he's most comfortable. I'm afraid I'm losing him and he'll never talk to me again. He used to be a mama's boy and he's been drifting over the last 4 years, since my divorce. When they are with me, we are living at my boyfriend's house. How do I make my son more comfortable and want to be with me?